1. Do not build your life around a woman.
That's the greatest mistake a man can ever make in his entire life, you loose your respect, authority, leadership delegation on a woman once you start building your life around her.
Relationship or marriage is meant for the woman to build her life around a man and not the other way round.
You loose everything as a man if you start that project of building your life around a woman.
Never mistake foolishness for love.
No woman, I repeat, not even your mother deserve such power, do not give any woman that power at all, never!
A woman should not be the source of your strength, peace, love, happiness and joy if not you're gone.
Rather source it from God your provider for endless peace and joy. That's the primary design, then your woman own comes second.
If you allow a woman dictate how you live and how you feel and how you react to things then your life is totally ruin.
A man must be 89% independent of his woman's help, superior in everything aside adopting a feminine frame.
Don't give any woman such power all in the name of love.
Don't sell your throne all for puccy, be the king and rule purposely.
Let your woman build her life around you while you build your life around God, your standard and purpose that's the most healthy way to be in a relationship and marriage.
Be wise and think about this.